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Another theory: Erikson's Psychological Stages

StageBasic ConflictImportant EventsOutcome
Infancy (birth to 18 months)Trust vs. MistrustFeedingChildren develop a sense of trust when caregivers provide reliabilty, care, and affection. A lack of this will lead to mistrust.
Early Childhood (2 to 3 years)Autonomy vs. Shame and DoubtToilet TrainingChildren need to develop a sense of personal control over physical skills and a sense of independence. Success leads to feelings of autonomy, failure results in feelings of shame and doubt.
Preschool (3 to 5 years)Initiative vs. GuiltExplorationChildren need to begin asserting control and power over the environment. Success in this stage leads to a sense of purpose. Children who try to exert too much power experience disapproval, resulting in a sense of guilt.
School Age (6 to 11 years)Industry vs. InferioritySchoolChildren need to cope with new social and academic demands. Success leads to a sense of competence, while failure results in feelings of inferiority.
Adolescence (12 to 18 years)Identity vs. Role ConfusionSocial RelationshipsTeens needs to develop a sense of self and personal identity. Success leads to an ability to stay true to yourself, while failure leads to role confusion and a weak sense of self.
Young Adulthood (19 to 40 years)Intimacy vs. IsolationRelationshipsYoung adults need to form intimate, loving relationships with other people. Success leads to strong relationships, while failure results in loneliness and isolation.
Middle Adulthood (40 to 65 years)Generativity vs. StagnationWork and ParenthoodAdults need to create or nurture things that will outlast them, often by having children or creating a positive change that benefits other people. Success leads to feelings of usefulness and accomplishment, while failure results in shallow involvement in the world.
Maturity(65 to death)Ego Integrity vs. DespairReflection on LifeOlder adults need to look back on life and feel a sense of fulfillment. Success at this stage leads to feelings of wisdom, while failure results in regret, bitterness, and despair.

Under developmental psych.
It has its limitations/criticisms and strengths.
mm my personal take; take away the age indications i guess.

self-reminder;
remember to think, not too much though!

All the best to all studying for upcoming papers :D

(i hope) everyday is revolutionary~~
12 days to start
23 days to end !!!
now, focus!
gogogo!

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怎么放得下心?
blessed,
bless you too

social psychology... dark!
haha.

this is kinda cute though,
reward theory;
- proximity
- similarity
- physical attractiveness
- self-disclosure

growing and learning
<3

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rough smiley scan for the year

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wish;
to be a morning person again

plate;
school, artivate, piano, driving, lindy...exercise !

short term goal;
get things righttt.

goodnight from somewhere a little far out.
take care dears

-jiayi

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are you happy?
does it even matter,
as long as we feel good!
which is in a way being happy?

using illusions to "distort" reality and make our lives more pleasant -chapter 7
hahah

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wake up call
zzz

and then?
step by step
one by one
gogogo!
\ /

so cute :D
support Project Mending Sky: You !

Date / Venue:
11 & 12 Sep 2009
Toa Payoh Central (outside Library)

18 & 19 Sep 2009
Next to Blk 340, Choa Chu Kang Loop (opposite Lot One)

Time:
6.30pm to 10.00pm

Price:
Free Admission

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: )

1. mocha can
2. 3 sisters egg biscuits
3. dark mocha frappe w/o whipped cream
4. four day work week for the sem thanks to a friend who helped do add/drop (((:
5. cute song and video


how can you be so happy?
i have no idea ha !
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Hmmm : |

this morning; newsweek article on abortion
yesterday: assignment of animal research

Domestic terror groups, anti-abortion activists, eco-terrorists
Late-term-abortion providers, animal researchers

What is their place in the world?
and mine.

reminder;
how great a thing you do doesn't matter
Perhaps the focus is to just do it, and continue doing.
workaholics are we...!
remember to learn